Selfish Desires

In the depths of our souls and our hearts is a desire. A desire to be loved, a desire to be accepted, a desire to live life to its fullest. These desires are embedded in our chemical makeup, but I speak for myself when I say that I probably spend too much of my time trying to achieve some of these "desires."

I spend too much time trying to make myself and my life desirable to others. I desire to have more friends all the time and I desire to be liked by those people I encounter every day. How selfish is this thinking? As I'm thinking about this, I'm disgusted with my own selfishness.

How much of my time do I spend trying to make myself something that quite honestly I can't always be? Do you ever catch yourself doing something, or trying too hard to appear like something you aren't? Maybe I'm the only one, but I constantly catch myself trying too hard, whether that be trying too hard to appear as if I'm having fun, or trying too hard to catch someone's attention. Either way it boils down to this: I'm trying too hard for something I shouldn't be worrying about.

If you are having to try to appear desirable or having to put on an "act" to appear one way or another, is it really worth it? I shouldn't feel like I have to put on this act, but instead I should be confident in being myself. Being myself will draw people in, or push them away, but either way at least I'm not pretending to be someone I'm not. At least I'm not trying so hard to catch everyone's attention when quite honestly they could care less about me.

In the end I have to constantly tell myself to stop. Stop trying so hard to make myself and my life desirable to others. I have to stop trying so hard to pull the attention on me, because that is not my purpose in living.

What I want instead, is to live in such a way that God brings people to me. God brings me attention so that I can positively reflect him in everything. I want God to be seen in me, and that means that my selfish desires to be noticed, have to be thrown out the window.

I'm human, and I want attention. Yet, God calls me to humble myself. Humble myself I will, and from this point on, I'm done.

I'm done trying to impress people. I'm done trying to pull attention in my direction, but instead I'm choosing right now to let God do this for me. He will bring the right people into my life, and he will always be the only one who sees that I feel desirable. He is the only one who will constantly desire you, and if that isn't enough for you, I don't know what is.

Flame vs Fire

Passionate is one word that I would always use to describe myself. Passionate about life. Passionate about causes. Passionate about everything I do. For those of you who know me I believe you can attest to this, but for those of you who don't just so you get a better picture, I don't half-do anything. To many people I'm viewed as a perfectionist, but from the inside looking out I would say that I know what I'm capable of, and I will not stop or settle for anything less than my personal best. In other words, I don't want a flame, I want a fire. I want to look back on life and say that I tried my best in everything, no matter what it was.

Recently I have fallen in love with a song called Do Something by Matthew West. The lyrics seriously speak what I am trying to live every day and for that reason I'm going to share them with you. I realize it's long, but I promise it's worth reading!

I woke up this morningSaw a world full of trouble nowThought, how'd we ever get so far downHow's it ever gonna turn around
So I turned my eyes to HeavenI thought, "God, why don't You do something?"Well, I just couldn't bear the thought ofPeople living in poverty
Children sold into slaveryThe thought disgusted meSo, I shook my fist at HeavenSaid, "God, why don't You do something?"
He said, "I did, I created you"
(Chorus) If not us, then whoIf not me and youRight now, it's time for us to do somethingIf not now, then whenWill we see an endTo all this painIt's not enough to do nothingIt's time for us to do something
I'm so tired of talkingAbout how we are God's hands and feetBut it's easier to say than to beLive like angels of apathy who tell ourselvesIt's alright, "somebody else will do something"
Well, I don't know about youBut I'm sick and tired of life with no desireI don't want a flame, I want a fireI wanna be the one who stands up and says,"I'm gonna do something"
Chorus
Bridge:We are the salt of the earthWe are a city on a hillBut we're never gonna change the worldBy standing still
Chorus.
I love Christian music, but this song just blew me out of the water! God made us to be his tools here on Earth. I realize I probably "preach" the same thing over and over, but it is so important to let God use you. Allow him to show you a cause, and DO SOMETHING! We live in a world full of causes, full of pain, a world that is so lost and consumed by darkness. Be the light, and do something. Often we will simply complain or talk about "how bad" a situation is, but how often do we step up and do something about it? We've been brought up with a mindset that one person CAN'T do anything alone, but this is SO wrong! It only takes one person to make a difference, and I promise you that if you were to stand up and do something, others will stand with you. Look at the world around you, and allow God to use you. We are God's hands and feet, but if we preach it without living it, are we really claiming anything at all? We can't call ourselves Christians if our lifestyles don't reflect it. We can't expect for people to be receptive of the Gospel if we do not take them in, feed them, and nourish their physical needs so to say. In order to touch their hearts, their souls, we have to take care of their needs.  
It takes a flame to get a fire going, but if you don't give that fire any oxygen it will eventually die. So live passionately, and allow God to take your flame and build it into a fire. We are capable of changing the world; you and I are capable of doing this! Let's stop complaining, and actually do something about the world we are living in. 

Together We Stand

Panic. Confusion. Chaos. It’s amazing how one text can change your day. One text that took my simple lunch and cram session before my calculus text, to a complete evacuation of campus. Leaving my calculus behind, I grabbed my backpack, keys, and wallet and did what everyone else was doing: evacuate. On foot I began to make my way off of campus, and towards an AFC friend’s home that lives in the “safe” zone.  Taking in to mind that these threats have been occurring all of the country, that evacuation is just a precaution, I knew this wasn’t the time for a real panic. 

Anyway thousands of students were walking off campus, traffic if backed up, streets closed, and yet we are still an Aggie Family. The war hymn was blaring, and I was checking with friends to ensure that they were safe. Within 30 minutes of the initial warning, I had taken so many steps to ensure that my “loved” ones were doing well. PamPam was informed, and was well aware of the situation, and all of my friends were aware and were making their way to “safety.”

Four hours later, we are still waiting. Still watching Duck Dynasty as the campus is being searched. Something that I truly appreciate is hospitality. Paul, Reagan, and Matt opened up their home to us, not only the AFC fish who live on campus, but they have opened up their doors to those people waiting on the street. Several people came in to their home for water or to simply use the restroom. Their hospitality and kindness to strangers, truly reiterates how we are an Aggie family; we are the 12^th man.

We stand together, whether that is for a football game, or in a bomb threat, together we stand.

90 to Nothing

Human. It's all I am, try as hard as I can to be a super-woman. At the end of the day, I'm always reminded how weak and human I truly am. This week has been such a reminder as I have been studying for three tests, writing papers, stressing to the max, and every night as I finally manage to lie down, it hits me: I'm human. I'm trying my best to accomplish so much more than is probably physically possible, because I feel pressure to live up to the world's "standards." I have to perform well academically, and this pressure has caused me much stress this week. So for most of the week I have been running ninety to nothing trying to accomplish a "To Do" list that never seems to end.

While I'm reminded of this common fact that I'm simply a human, it always makes me conscious of my time here. Sure I've spent hours in the library studying this week, but how many hours have I spent dedicated to the Lord? In the midst of chaos, is my relationship with God making its way to the back burner? Absolutely not. In a world full of "To Do" lists, does God seem to be the last thing on the list? Do you find yourself pushing time off reading your Bible for tomorrow, or saying you'll pray at another point? I'm guilty of this, but this week has been different for me. I've constantly been seeking God, even in the library. I've really focused on making sure that my time with God has not been suffering because of my crazy schedule, and I have seen a difference.

The difference you ask? I'm happy. I'm stressed, yes, but God has given me so many opportunities this week to see him, and to serve him. These opportunities would often be small things I would overlook with such a crazy week, but I have been conscious to search for them. They are simple: saying hello to the old man sitting alone on campus, carrying a backpack for a girl on crutches in my dorm, and lastly being able to explain to a guy in my class that though I did have a test the next morning, my involvement at church rejuvenates me. Being able to explain to him my relationship with God, was so good, and I so hope that he took something from it. These opportunities would often pass me by, but I have been searching and acting on them. The rewards are so good, and it's amazing just how they can change your attitude for the day.

We are all humans, we all have our "to do" lists that never seem to end. But, in the midst of the chaos are you allowing God to work? Are you allowing him to provide you with opportunities to shine your light? Are you still being considerate of others? Are you allowing the stress and pressure to get to you, causing you to take it out negatively on those around you? If you are, I'm begging you to step away and reevaluate your life. How much more important is being kind to a stranger rather than getting home to start that last load of laundry? It's the small things in this life, the way we handle situations, the way we treat people that can make the difference on how Christianity is perceived. Always allow God to work, and be conscious of the opportunities he provides you with.

Remember, your actions speak louder than words. Live out your faith. Don't simply claim it in words, but together let's show the world what Christianity looks like, even in those busy weeks.

10,000 Reasons

I am officially halfway through my first semester. While I should be sighing in relief, I am really feeling the pressure to make sure my grades improve. Anyway I really want to get into the body, the purpose, of this blog. I'm going to apologize in advance if this blog isn't as encouraging as it should be, but this blog's purpose is for me to really track how far I have come in such a short amount of time.

When my parents dropped me off here on August 18, everything in my world was perfect. I was so happy that my dreams were finally coming true. I had just completed what was definitely the best summer of my life at Deer Run, and I was so ready to start my college career at A&M.

Little did I know just how hard the Devil was going to try to get me down, and how hard he still is trying.

I came to college in a knee brace for a sprained MCL, and I had to wait a long week for the doctor to simply call and tell me that my knee was still showing severe bruising. In short my knee needed time to heal, but little did my doctor know that I lived on the 4th floor and had a 15 minute walk to every class on campus. I prayed for healing, and had close friends pray that my knee would somehow heal even when it couldn't "rest" and the Lord was faithful; my knee has healed.

One week after being dropped off, I received some bad news from my mom about my pawpaw. For some background, I have an EXTREMELY close relationship with my grandparents. When I lived at home, I made a point to go over to their house and visit with them as often as I could. My Thursdays spring semester of my senior year, were actually devoted to fishing trips with them, and then a home cooked meal. Those Thursdays were such a blessing and we grew extremely close. One week after my parents left, I received the news that my pawpaw was going to have surgery to remove what could possibly be melanoma cancer off of his eyelid. My heart sunk, and it was all I could do not to go home for the surgery. I won't lie, it was all I could do not to drive home and comfort my hurting family. But, as sad as I was, I knew that this situation could not get me down. I had to rejoice in this suffering, and I am so thankful that I did. The Lord is faithful, and through constant prayer, he took care of my pawpaw through surgery. My pawpaw has no signs of melanoma and that is such a blessing. His health still concerns me, but I refuse to let the Devil use this to get me down. I can stay here at A&M, pray, and be as much of an encouragement to them as I would be there with them. Prayers for his health would be appreciated still today.

The reasons go on. My great-grandmother, Grandma Mills, will be turning 99 next month. For the past 6 years she has fought a number of health related battles, and to be honest, I'm not quite sure how she has made it this far. After going home this weekend, I learned that she is truly deteriorating. I am at peace with this solution, because she has lived a long life. Her time has been meaningful, and I know that her time to go looms. I ask for prayers for my grandparents as they wake up and take care of her every day. Be with them in encouragement, because this situation weighs on them daily.

School. Oh my goodness. A&M is hard, way hard. I have been studying, and going to SI sessions, but you wouldn't think it based on some of my first round test grades. Yet, my difficulty in school is not enough for me to give up and quit. Sure I'm not making as high grades as other college students as smaller schools closer to home, but I AM going to one of the largest and most academically challenging universities in the nation. That alone makes it worth it. Well that, plus the fact that I'll have a little chunk of gold on my right hand one day. The Devil is attempting to use my bad grades as a way to depress me, as a way to make me feel like I'm not intelligent enough, or that I don't belong here. He won't win though, because I know God has bigger plans for me.

Health. I've been sick a majority of my time here. The reason: my body can't adjust to the allergens in College Station. I know, it's crazy. My sinus, and congestion problems are taking a toll on my body. Not to mention that I need rest, but what's that in college? My doctor's diagnosis was a hit in the gut, because what am I supposed to do if my body can't adjust to the town I'm living in, move? Absolutely not. I will be praying about this situation, and I pray that my body will adjust. I am completely confident that God will fix this situation; it just takes time.

As I said earlier, I'm sorry if this blog is depressing. It's title 10,000 Reasons, is how I feel the Devil is working on me. He is trying in so many ways to get a foothold, a way to pull me down. He won't succeed, because even in these hardships I know God is greater. God is bigger than this world. The Bible tells us that living in the world won't be easy, and good I'm glad! If it was, would we honestly appreciate our reward: an eternity in Heaven?! No, we wouldn't. So I look at these hardships as a blessing. Some just call it adjusting to college, but I won't call it that. I've adjusted faster than I thought, but these hardships are the Devil's way of trying to pull me back home. He won't win, because through these hardships, I have also reaped many blessings. I'm surviving my chemistry class, and I'm making an A. I've realized that I can go to Medical School, and my approach to make myself a competitive applicant will be my involvement in the Lord's work. I'm involved in AFC (Aggies For Christ) which has given me more opportunities than I've ever had. I work with inner-city kids on Sundays, and that challenge alone has been a blessing. The newest addition to this list is the fact that this Christmas Break I'm going to Nicaragua for ten days. Yes, it's the break and I should want to rest and be with my family. No, I've been called to serve God's kingdom by helping children in Nicaragua. I'm so excited about this adventure, yet so anxiously nervous at the same time.

All of this has been said to prove the point that the Devil and the world will give you 10,000 reasons to get down in this life. But for every blessing, it's more than worth it. My college experience this far has been great. I am so blessed to have new friends and I am so thankful for every opportunity that arises for me to get involved here at A&M. I've learned to take every day, just by that. Day by day, rather than stressing myself thinking of next week. My time here is just beginning, and I am so glad that I have so much more time here. I know I'll face many more challenges, but like I said a single blessing is so much more to be than 10,000 hardships.

Be blessed this week, and don't give up. Keep your eyes on the goal, and together we'll make it.

Patiently Waiting

“Patience is a virtue,” is a saying that often grows old as we are desperately waiting for something. Every day we have the opportunity to practice patience. Every day we are forced to wait for something, whether that be a stop light, or waiting in line at Starbucks, every day we have the opportunity to practice patience.

In today’s society, patience isn’t the norm. We EXPECT to be served quickly and immediately, like we are entitled to be number one in everything. Having to wait is becoming less and less normal every day.

Yet, God calls us to wait. God calls us to be patient.

Psalm 37: 7, “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him.”

Be still. Stop what you are doing and wait for the Lord.

In the midst of our chaotic schedules, and “to do” lists, how often do we stop to wait for the Lord? How often do we stop to patiently wait for him? Whether it’s stopping to wait for his calling, his plans, his answered prayer, or even waiting for him to come back to the Earth, how often do you take time out of your day to wait for him?

We don’t plan to wait; we plan to go. We get frustrated when we get stuck in traffic, or when the line at Starbucks extends past the doors, because we are impatient people. We’ve been told all our lives that waiting, is inconvenient, when really a little patience, a little waiting will serve us well.

Throughout the Bible are hundreds of instances where men and women patiently waited for the Lord.

Sarah waited for the Lord to give her a son.

Noah waited for the Lord to seal the ark.

Joseph waited for the Lord as he sat in prison for a crime he did not commit.

Multiple people in the New Testament waited for Jesus to heal them.

We are waiting for the Lord to deliver us, to one day come back and save us.

The list could go on and on, but all the signs point to one thing: we should patiently wait. God promises us so much, and all he asks is that we will patiently wait. His timing is beyond perfect, so who are we to get frustrated when his timing isn’t the same as ours.

So together let’s be patient in waiting.

We can help one another through our waiting, by praying for patience. We can wait together as we anticipate a doctor’s diagnosis, or as we anxiously wait to feel God tug at our heartstrings. Whatever it is you are waiting for, do just that. Patiently wait, and consult God in prayer and petition. Who knows, maybe through it all, we can make it where patiently waiting becomes much more than a practice. It becomes a lifestyle.